19 August,2024 09:53 AM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondent
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Bollywood actor Arjun Kapoor, blessed with many sisters - Janhvi, Khushi, Anshula, Sonam, Rhea, and Shanaya took to Instagram and shared an important message on the occasion of Raksha Bandhan. The actor took the opportunity to impart wisdom amid the ongoing outrage over the horrifying Kolkata rape-murder case that shook the nation.
Raksha Bandhan is a traditional Hindu festival dedicated to the love and bond between brothers and sisters. On this day, sisters tie a rakhi around their brothers' wrists, who vow to protect them.
Arjun begins the video by saying, "I'm about to go and celebrate Raksha Bandhan with my sisters guys. It feels really strange to celebrate a festival with what's happening, which has to do with protecting each other, protecting your sisters, being there for the women in your life, for the women that you love, that you care for. While we see so much anguish and so much of lack of basic understanding and education amongst a lot of the men, when we celebrate Rakhi, we speak about being a brother, taking care of."
He continues, "Why aren't we taught how to make the environment safe enough for all our sisters to roam around without needing a brother? All the time to protect and take care physically to be around. Yes, I know the visual is something we got used to that the brother is protective or the man is protective but I think somewhere we need to teach other men that they need to make women feel safe rather than teach men to protect women."
Arjun further adds, "It's a much bigger conversation. I think there's a lot of education. There's a lot of conversation and there's a lot of basic understanding that is lacking in our ecosystem. I don't know how much this will change how people think, but it's definitely something that's been on my mind. Why have you always told to protect? Why aren't we told to make them feel safe? It's something I've been thinking about. It's been going on in my mind for a long time. Yeah, sometimes you feel it's not overly discussing because people don't get it, but I just thought I put it in the universe.
"And hopefully, even if it affects or resonates with a few people, at least it's a conversation or a starting point. As a brother, as a man, I feel we need to change the way we perceive women in our lives. I think somewhere, I feel men need to be taught how to allow women to feel safe around them, not just be there to protect them. I think that would be a big lesson if we could make the women around us, the girls, feel safe, not just for their safety, but to stand around them, to live in their lives. I just hope a lot of men think about how to be there for the women in their lives and make them stronger and powerful by making them feel safe," he concludes.
On the work front, Arjun will be seen as the antagonist in Rohit Shetty's âSingham Again'.