'I don't have an attractive physique...'

She's a Ryan Gosling fan and wants me to have a body like him! Paying attention to her, I even joined a gym but due to my tardiness, I haven't been able to come up with a spectacular physique. Moreover, my girlfriend seems turned off every time I undress. Hence, I don't get to surprise her with my moves in bed either. It's getting more and more conscious on our part that we don't enjoy it anymore. I believe we've reached a point where things are way too dull to continue any further.
- Sunny

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Sunny,
Your girl says she likes you but not your body! That is a bit strange because she has to like you as you are in whole. It is okay for your woman to tell you that you need to go to a gym and bulk up, but she seems to be taking it to an extreme. She can't be making faces looking at your bod. You may not have washboard abs and six pack abs, but then she fell for you right despite your limitations? You need to knock this in her head first. u00a0

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