'My friends don't like my guy!'

They don't like him. They feel he is not serious about me. I'm the talkative kind whereas he's the wise quiet guy type. We have been together for four months, but he hasn't showed any acknowledgment for my affections. I feel he is the guy I would like to marry. Am I making a fool of myself with this guy? Should I say goodbye and just move on?
- Dhari

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Dhari,
You know him barely for four months so give the relationship some more time. It appears that you are already ready to walk down the altar with him! There is no need to be hasty. Your guy, too, does not want to commit so soon. This is the reason he is taking his time. Your pals can have their opinion but it is up to you to decide your future. Broach the subject with your guy. You will then have a clearer picture.u00a0

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