'My hubby watches porn but doesn't let me!'

We don't have kids yet because we want to take our time. The only problem I have is with my hubby's hypocrisy about porn. He himself watches a lot of it and tries to keep things exciting in the bed. But he never lets me do the same.
- Nisaba

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Nisaba,
Your guy seems to be among those who believe that porn is a guy thing! He feels that he should only enjoy and leave you out. You are not the only woman who feels this way. There are several husbands who love to watch it - but alone sans their wives. Many women have a problem with their men watching porn but you don't have an issue with it. Suggest to him that watching it together might spice up things in bed!
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