'My wife's ex-lover is back in her life'

The guy had taken up a job and relocated to Bahrain. Now three years after our marriage the guy is back in her life! He has quit his job and moved back to Mumbai and also in my wife's life. She tells me she speaks to him all the time. Might be they meet too and I have no clue. What should I do to get rid of this daily torment?
- Nawaz

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Nawaz,
Your wife seems to be taking you for granted. She may feel she is being honest by telling you everything. But this is her way of being safe and continuing being in a relationship with her ex. May be she was still in touch with him when he was in Bahrain. You have to tell her to choose between you and her ex-flame. This guy may be showering a lot of attention at her due to which she is getting carried away. But she is indulging in an extra-marital affair which will affect a lot of people around.

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