Research conducted at the Florida State University says men use risky tactics like bungee jumping and sky diving to woo women. iTALK finds out if women get taken in by antics
Research conducted at the Florida State University says men use risky tactics like bungee jumping and sky diving to woo women. iTALK finds out if women get taken in by antics
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Actor Dino Morea is passionate about water games, football, horse riding and skydiving. "Ya, women are impressed when they see me participating in thrills, but it is not the only way to make women drool over you," he says. |
The reason why blokes make up four-fifths of the world's skydivers and two-thirds of all rock climbers, is because they want to land a chick. Nonsense? We are not saying it. Scientists at Florida State University claim men use risky tactics to show off their strength, ambition and confidence to impress women. The reason why women fancy this variety of men is because they are biologically programmed to pick men who can provide for them and their children. This pressure forces males to work harder to prove their worth.
Clinical psychologist Seema Hingorrany says risk taking can't always impress a woman, and even if it does, it can't last long. For a man, his self esteem is important. Performing a risky task, leaves him with a sense of worth, upping his confidence. But, you don't necessarily have to follow stone-age definitions of risk taking, she says. being a go-getter, and providing for the woman and family, is good enough for any woman.u00a0
Remember: >>Don't try something you are not skilled at. You might goof up, and you'll be worse off than where you started.
>>A woman will be equally impressed with a simple flower.u00a0
>>Every woman loves surprises. Try leaving a special note for her when she least expects it.
At work, risk-taking better be calculated
Anita Shantaram Corporate Trainer and EducatorYou get the opportunity to explore something new only when you take a risk. But when it comes to work, it's essential that you calculate the consequences of the risk. If there are more chances of winning, go ahead. If the ratio of success and failure is equal, rethink. Be mentally prepared for failure, and have a plan B to fall back on.
HOT TIP: It is better to be safe than sorry. Watch out for what is at stake, be realistic before deciding your next move.
Does a risk taker impress you?
A mature guy is more impressive
Suchitra Pillai Actor I would prefer a guy who plays safe. Indulging in a risky activity might impress me once, but it wouldn't last long. I'd prefer a mature individual who'd handle situations intelligently.
Man who plays safe is attractive
Mahima Chaudhary, Film actorIf I were a teenager, I'd be floored by that sort of a guy. But at this point in my life, I would be charmed by a man who plays safe and has the ability to run my family. responsibly.
Ya, he'll add spice to a relationship
Shafeya Suleman 20, Market researcher A risk taker has the ability to take spontaneous decisions, and take the advantage of opportunities. I can expect surprises from him. That'll add spice to a relationship.
Calculated risks are necessary
Mahafreed Irani, 23, Media professionalA man who takes calculated risks will impress me. You can climb the success ladder only when you have the ability to take risks. But he needs to be creative and intelligent too.
A candle-light dinner would work, instead
Arti Bhatia, 20,u00a0 Management studentA guy who shows off, can't impress me. Instead, simple gestures like taking me for a romantic dinner would work better.
