Dirty business

A few forbidden careless whispers can do what the best lingerie often can't. We show you how to talk dirty and steal a clean victory

It's only words, and words are all you have, to take his breath away. Believe it or not, dirty talk has proven to be much stronger a turn on than any other means, by many a research over the years. However, the fact is that the art of wicked whispering requires a creative mind with a willingness to learn. If you feel embarrassed and want tips on how to ace the trick, here we come to your rescue.



Get comfy first

The first step to talking dirty is to become comfortable with it. One needs to keep in mind that it is like a secret skill you share with your partner a powerful, intimate one, and that boldness is a thing to be proud of, and not scared of. Shed your inhibitions men love women who can speak their mind and reveal their wildest fantasies, bit by bit.u00a0

Tone-ment

The tone of your voice goes a long way in talking dirty. When talking dirty, you will need to find your own unique way of doing so. Don't ape an actress; explore your own secret side. It can be in a deep voice or soft whispers. You can even experiment with different voices to heighten anticipation, but make sure you don't end up sounding funny. Try your best to avoid the use of clinical terms, because too many of these may be a turn off. If you are at a loss, watch divas at their best for inspiration.

Slow and steady

If you haven't talked dirty with your partner ever, surprising him/her with it might not be a great idea. Take small steps to find out where he/she stands on talking dirty. Sexy texts, e-mails and Web chat pings can be good places to begin. Say what part you loved from last night: explicitly yet subtly. Don't make it sound like porn poetry, please. Understated sensuality is the key. Also, keep it honest. The feeling comes through, and so does the pretense.