11 March,2011 08:48 AM IST | | Diana
Dear Diana,
I'm 19 while my bua (dad's sis/my aunt) is 29. She's been married almost ten years now but is childless and lives with us without her husband, an NRI who is unable to father a child. She even applied for a test tube baby but it hasn't worked out for her. She's gorgeous and has a killer figure. Needless, to say, I'm mighty aroused. I often fantasise of having sex with her. One of the reasons is me wanting to help her make a baby. But how should I approach her? Also, she is my aunt and can complain to my father. Please help me out!
Dear Friend,
Some things just aren't meant to be. Fantasising about your aunt, however close the two of you are age-wise is just so wrong. Also, this isn't simply an infatuation, you're actually lusting after her. Something that may be common in boys your ageu00a0-- being attracted to someone unattainable yet supposedly available. You cannot approach her with the intentions you have in mind and tell her that you wanna have sex with her. And the 'I want to get her pregnant' excuse is so lame, it isn't funny. If she needed your help in that department, she'd ask for it.
Wanna sent my boyfriend some texts...
Dear Diana,
I want to send my boyfriend some texts to let him know that I'm thinking about him and how much he means to me, but I don't know what to say. What should I say?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
It's your boyfriend. You know best. In most cases, telling him what's on your mind, however simple those feelings may be, could mean a lot to him. An when it doubt, look up the internet. You'll always find something you can be sure will bring a smile to his face when he reads it.
His premarital affairs are troubling me
Dear Diana,
I lose my temper whenever my husband started talking to other women. All this began when I found out just after we got married that my husband had already slept with other women. I hate myself for not knowing this. I came to know about the two of them after checking his mail. When I read all their mails, all they were talking about was the stupid sex that they had... I am so mad! These days, my husband is trying to make it up to me. But I have no interest. Well, just sometimes... I do love him but all this is upsetting me!
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
While it is wrong for your husband to be exchanging mails with a woman he used to have sex with, behind your back, you have to understand that some men are wired that way. While it is fair to say that you should've known better, this isn't something most men choose to reveal about themselves. These are things one inevitably stumbles upon. You're right by not showing interest when he's trying to make it up to you. It's something he should've told you even at the risk of losing you. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't have kept this from you.
