My girlfriend doesn't want to make sex tapes

Dear Diana,
My partner is a bit shy when it comes to matters that pertain to between the sheets. This is not to suggest that we don't have a good sex life. We do. Just that I want to make sex-tapes with her in order to spice up our relationship but she is not at all interested in this idea. How do I convince her?
- Rambo

Dear Rambo,
First of all you need to respect her decision. You may be in a mood for some kinky stuff but she is obviously not game for it. I can understand her fears and apprehensions because the tapes could fall into other people's hands and lead to a disastrous situation. You don't want to see yourself on a social media site with the world watching you between the sheets. I suggest you give up on the idea of capturing on camera any of your intimate moments.

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