My guy is suddenly avoiding me!

Dear Diana,
A while ago my guy just stopped talking to me and avoiding me. I found it strange. Whenever I asked him why he was behaving like this, he would give no proper reply. He would come up with some lame excuse and walk off. We work for the same organisation. Now he has moved to a new job. He did not even deem it fit to tell me. I had to SMS him and ask him about it. He replied, "Yes!" Now there has been no communication between us at all. I called him once and he told me he was in a shopping arcade and couldn't hear me due to the noise. I know that he is avoiding me. But why couldn't he just tell me. His silence and strange behaviour is affecting me. Don't I deserve an explanation after he spent two years with me? He would tell me he would always be around for me. I trusted him blindly and this is what I got. I feel angry as well as humiliated.
-u00a0NS

Dear NS,
Yes, it is right on your part to feel angry. Since he is not taking your calls and avoiding you, it would be best not to call him or send SMSes. Also why do you want an explanation from a person who after a two-year relationship one fine day decides that he wants to move on? And does not even think it necessary to tell you? He seems to be a person you can't trust. Do not waste your time figuring why he is avoiding you or giving excuses for not taking your calls or not talking to you. You should now just ignore him and go on with your life and don't let his behaviour affect you. It will be tough for you, but you will have to put up a strong front. Time will heal.

I can't read what's on the class blackboard

Dear Diana,
I am a 14-year-old-girl, studying in Standard IX. My problem is that I cannot read what is on the blackboard from a distance while the rest of my classmates can. They now tease me and say that I will have to start wearing glasses. I hate it.
-u00a0Lossy

Dear Lossy,
There could be many reasons why you cannot read what's on the blackboard. But it is betteru00a0 you visit an eye doctor as soon as possible. Maybe your problem can be solved without you having to wear glasses and that too before it is too late. Wearing spectacles is no big deal. You can always opt for contact lenses and at a later stage go in for vision correction surgery.

He didn't like me dancing with another guy

Dear Diana,
A few weeks ago I was at a colleague's farewell party with my boyfriend as we work at the same place. At the bash, with his permission, I danced with one of the guys. From that day he is very upset with me because I danced with only one particular guy. I tried to explain to him that he was okay with it at the party so why did he make a fuss later. Please help.
-u00a0Kim

Dear Kim,
All men have big ego issues. He has no reason to be upset with you as you danced in front of him and with his approval. His action shows that he is insecure and wants to dominate which is not good for a relationship. You have to put your foot down and tell him that you danced before everyone and there is nothing wrong in that. And there is nothing more to it.