Ways to boost your lover's libido

27 April,2009 09:24 AM IST |   |  Bibhu Pattnaik

What if your partner doesn't share the same sexual urge in the bed what you have been opting for since the time you left office? You are feeling all revved up to have some hot action, but your partner doesn't share the same sexual hunger. Its time for you to check and solve your partner's sexual problem.


What if your partner doesn't share the same sexual urge in the bed what you have been opting for since the time you left office? You are feeling all revved up to have some hot action, but your partner doesn't share the same sexual hunger. Its time for you to check and solve your partner's sexual problem.

The sexual dissatisfaction or loss of attention towards having that wild sex can be checked with various reasons live childbirth, stress, or loss of a loved one.

Problems like attaining orgasm, a waning sex drive, or erectile dysfunction can also have one partner far from that heavenly moment. .

According to the Fox News, all these problems can be dealt with the help of your doctor or sex therapist.

Here are few tips by which you can get your partner to form and to explore that sexual ecstasy.

First and foremost, incorporate fantasy throughout the day. Plant seeds in your partner's head of things you know spark interest. Share a hot thought you had involving an erotic moment you once shared. Describe body parts you miss touching and how you're consumed with longing. Rent a movie with a sexy or romantic storyline.

Secondly, read up on the many types of peaking men and women can have, and let your lover know that you want to explore how both of you can reach new climactic heights.

Thirdly, don't make sex about physical gratification alone. Truly worship your lover and hail the lovemaking as a celebratory experience? One you can't get enough of.

Fourth, While we can't look like our supermodel selves 24 x 7, putting effort into your appearance helps you put out more persuasions. You'll be harder to resist.

Fifth, Keep things novel and spicy in and out of the bedroom. In exploring what turns both of you on when it comes to sex, you can broaden your sexual repertoire. You want to make your lover feel like you're embarking on an adventure, not just going for a simple roll in the hay.

Sixth, engage in verbal foreplay. While men often need sex to feel loved, women often need to feel loved before they engage in sex. The more you engage in all types of erotic talk affectionate, romantic, sexy - the more you'll pique your lover's interest.

Finally, don't forget that honesty is the best policy. Talking openly to each other about what sex means to you without being demanding or putting expectations on each other is often necessary.

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