10 December,2009 07:14 AM IST | | Alisha Coelho
10 years ago, desperately poor women who rented out their wombs to childless couples were happy withu00a0 just their fee. Today, they call the shots and hold couples to ransom
Hans Christian Andersen's fairy tale of the Princess who could not sleep because of a pea that had been kept at the bottom of a bed of 40 mattresses is mirrored in this story, except that the princess is an unwed mother, a surrogate mom.
And the pea here is a metaphor for the demands that these women make on the couples for whom they carry the baby.
Who are the Moms?
Surrogate mothers, who come from desperately poor families, are increasingly using the power of the womb over childless couples to demand a better deal for themselves.
Said Dr Duru Shah from a fertility clinic in Kemps Corner, "One surrogate well into the pregnancy suddenly said she wanted her uncomfortable mattress to be changed, and wanted it changed now!
It was extremely hard and lumpy. And she did not give in till it was changed to a better one."
The days when poor surrogates were taken advantage of are fast becoming a thing of the past. Most surrogate mothers at the couple's insistence are housed at apartments to ensure acceptable hygiene levels.
Twin Price
Another city gynaecologist, who refused to be named, recalled how a surrogate woman, who was carrying twins demanded, on the operation table, that the parents pay her double the money they had promised her.
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"She refused to undergo a Caesarean. When the couple pleaded with her and argued that it was unfair to renege on the contract, the woman simply stormed out of the delivery room, and could only be persuaded to return after she was paid what she was asking for," said another city gynaecologist.
However, gynaecologists also add that even though this is a rising trend, this is not the norm.
ALL'S WELL: Haresh and Niketa Calcuttawala with their one-year-old Parth. The couple's surrogate never gave them any reason to complain |
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It's In The Bible! |
Surrogacy can be traced back to biblical times, where Abraham's wife Sarah was unable to conceive and, hence, made her slave girl Hagar sleep with Abraham. They conceived a child Ishmael. |