Can what she feels for me be called love?

Can what she feels for me be called love?

Dear Diana,
There is this girl I know who behaves all funny around me. She gets tonguet-tied when I am around and the funny thing is, she's a chatterbox otherwise. I know I am being boastful, but I think she is in love with me. Only thing is, she hasn't told me this herself. She's good-looking and fun to be around. Should I propose to her or

Lalit

Dear Lalit,
We all wear our emotions on our sleeve when it comes to that special someone. If she's being apparent about her feelings for you, it still is better that you let those feelings come to the fore before deciding to go ahead with your proposal to her. Also make sure with friends if she feels that way for you, before you end up looking like a fool.

Is she the perfect match?

Dear Diana,
I'm 35 and a Catholic. Very recently, I got a matrimonial proposal from a divorced Indian girl from the UK. At first, I was a bit hesitant but when I saw her snap, I changed my mind. But I still doubt if she will be a perfect match for me. Also, will this marriage last without any problems? As she is divorced, will she be able to leave her past behind?

Thomas

Dear Thomas,
Obviously, this may not be the only proposal you've received. Also, if you have doubts aboutu00a0 a potential partner, it's best you don't follow up. If you think it isn't in your best interests, don't keep in touch with her at all. If you like her, though, I think you should follow your heart and see how it goes. Tehre's no foolproof way of figuring out how a marriage will shape up after a given number of years. No one can know for sure.

Had she been playing with me all along?

Dear Diana,
We were in love for seven years. I tried to propose to her but she refused. After that, I realised that she felt sorry for what she did with me (from her body language). I tried to speak with her friends also but they also refuse to talk. Recently,I learnt that she is in a relationship with another guy in the same building. I still love her and don't know what to do. I don't have enough time to see her or to talk with her due to my office working hours.

Name withheld on request

Dear Friend,
After seven years, to break up with a loved one is indeed difficult. Especially since your significant other hasn't told you why she has decided to separate from you. You might have done something for things to get this way. Speak to her clearly about the rumours of this other guy and ask her if those rumours are true. If she admits that she is in a relationship with someone else, it is time to move on.