Asks Diana Karbak from Arunachal Pradesh, who complains of the cultural ignorance of the country about Northeast
Asks Diana Karbak from Arunachal Pradesh, who complains of the cultural ignorance of the country about Northeast
"You don't look Indian." The statement infuriates Diana Karbak every time she hears it.
The 26-year-old accessory designer from Arunachal Pradesh has been living in Delhi for about 20 years now but complains she is still treated as an outsider, often like a tourist from another country. "I've been often told I don't look like an Indian. But what is Indian?" asked the designer, who feels she is as patriotic as anyone else.
"I love my country, I vote. So when my nationality is doubted just because I look different, it angers me. This discrimination is unacceptable in a country like India that is made up of so many diverse cultures," said Karbak, who resides at Dwarka, southwest Delhi.
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'Unsafe in Delhi'
Arunachal Pradesh holds fond memories for Karbak. "I was born in Tezu in the district of Lohit in Arunachal.
Growing up was so much fun. We would have picnics in the forests and cycle around the village until it was dark. But had I grown up in Delhi, I think I would have missed out on these. The city is not safe, certainly not for a young girl," said Karbak.
Culture barrier
However, what saddens Karbak the most is when people misunderstand her homeland and her people. "People think Northeast is unsafe and that we eat dog meat, our women are sexually promiscuous and everyone's a Christian. Nobody wants to find out the truth about us, they are happy with the fake image."
But Karbak doesn't blame people in Delhi alone. She feels the entire country is ignorant.
Karbak was even more indignant when a popular reality show on a television channel aired a clip where a contestant called a boy from the Northeast, 'chinky'. "I sent the television channel a letter of protest and lodged a complaint with the Ministry of Information and Broadcasting. I got a response from the channel but it wasn't an apology. It hurt that generalisation of such a matter could be tolerated and even reiterated as it was during the airing of the promos on national television," said Karbak.
In Delhi, Karbak is surrounded by people who aren't from Northeast India and is often confronted by their insensibilities.
"Not many people have been to the Northeastern states. It's sometimes more expensive to fly there than to a country in South East Asia. And even if there were easy and affordable options, people fear it is unsafe," said Karbak, adding that even if her friends might want to experiment with a new region, their parents would not allow them to. "The ignorance about our region and culture spans generations."
