Holi is all about colours, and it is also about spontaneity. There are tons of unexpected reunions at Holi parties, sudden plans, and colors flying through the air. "Bura na mano, Holi hai" describes the real essence of the day, but Indian daters think that, leaving everything aside, this free pass for the day should be slowly removed from the Holi narrative. 

In fact, according to a survey by Indian dating app, QuackQuack, nearly 48 per cent of young daters are embracing a consent-first interaction and dating style to counter the rampant use of "bura na mano" during this festival of colours. The app's Founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Respect matters more than spontaneity right now. Moreover, how we celebrate festivals reflects how society is evolving. Today's daters want fun without making others uncomfortable; consent is no longer perceived as a limitation but a necessity. Every year, we see new dating trends around every major festival; this year's trend shows how young daters are prioritizing trust, boundaries, and the comfort of their matches."