Are modern men breaking old dating stereotypes? Survey finds out

While traditional gender roles and preconceived notions of masculinity have often influenced dating and relationships a new survey has found that modern men have moved away from the stereotypes and embraced vulnerability pushed beyond superficial connections and become more transparent about their discrepancies and red flagsDating app QuackQuack surveyed 12000 male users from Tier 1 2 and 3 cities revealing a refreshing new shift in the way men approach datingtodayTransparency about red flagsOver onethird of the respondents between 25 and 35 reported discussing their alreadyidentified red flags with potential matches during the initial chatting stage It is highrisk but they deem it best to be transparent about character traits that can be difficult for others to adjust to while they work on improving them They disclosed bringing up difficult conversations like past relationship mistakes mental health issues and worklife imbalance leaving behind the dark and mysterious facade to open up and build a healthy connectionOpenly vulnerable26 per cent of men from urban suburban and rural India shared that online dating apps have helped them get in touch with their vulnerable side its easier to be open about weaknesses from behind the screen than in facetoface exchanges Sameer 28 from Delhi said Digital interactions give a sort of buffer while sharing complex things like careerrelated anxieties commitment issues and even family mattersPrioritising mental health3 in 5 men between the ages of 20 and 30 seemed to recognise mental health as a priority and selfcare a necessity Ajay from Mangalore said Its a new model of masculinity We do not hit the gym only to impress women we do so to keep our minds and bodies healthy and the sheer realisation of it is a significant development in the way men think We also make sure to work through our issues before diving headfirst into a relationship we are open to seeking helpAcknowledging equalityNearly 37 per cent of male users above 30 revealed their desire for a relationship based on mutual independence and equality Himangshu a social worker from Assam noted I dont mind splitting the cheque with my dates or being pampered with some gifts It does not hurt my ego These are no more genderspecific responsibilities Why should one gender lead and the other follow It isnrsquotfair to eitherrdquoResponding to the question about dealing with a partner who earns more and the impacts of it on the relationship 3 in 6 men shared that they would be genuinely happy for their partnerrsquos success and wholeheartedly support her in achieving moreMen too have boundariesContrary to popular belief 29 per cent of male daters revealed actively setting boundaries with new matches whether it is not pulling an allnighter on call or boundaries around personal time preferences and for some even exclusivityThe apprsquos founder and CEO Ravi Mittal said ldquoOwing to the large number of users we get the front seat view of modern daters redefining masculinity They are more open aware communicative and one of the key points of this study shows men are prioritising their emotional needs over being peer pressured into acting detached and indifferent while datingrdquoAlso ReadWorld Mental Health Day 2024 Coping with rejection in romantic relationships