Veteran actor Pankaj Kapur felt the fear of missing out, or FOMO in internet slang, when he was “nowhere” to be seen in the Instagram posts from his granddaughter’s birthday party, an experience that made him briefly consider making his debut on social media.

Kapur, 70, is the father of actor Shahid Kapoor, whose daughter Misha turned eight on August 26. “It was my granddaughter’s birthday. There were a lot of [posts on] Instagram, but I was nowhere. So, I missed being part of that Instagram business. But, I think I’m a private person and I like keeping to myself,” he said.