Updated On: 02 June, 2022 05:24 PM IST | Mumbai | Anuka Roy
To sensitise a child towards gender issues and the queer community, they need to be raised in a more open environment that embraces diversity. From not giving children gender-specific toys to continually learning as a parent, two Mumbaikars share their personal experiences around building an inclusive home

Shubhreet Kaur and her husband have adopted the gender-equal parenting approach to raise their two daughters and sensitise them about the queer community. Photo Courtesy: Shubhreet Kaur
When Shubhreet Kaur’s elder daughter Karma was three, she used to play with a Lego set where Minnie Mouse was a firefighter who saves Daisy Duck. After Minnie saves Daisy, they move on to take care of a baby. “At that age she might not know what ‘husband’ and ‘wife` is. For her, they are a family. She does not know what ‘LGBTQIA+’ means but she already thinks it’s cool that two women are raising a baby together through play,” explains Kaur.
Kaur, 36, is a mom-blogger who documents experiences about parenting and traveling with a child. Her blog — titled Raising Karma — also emphasises the importance of raising a LGBTQIA+ sensitive child and adopting equality-based parenting. According to research published in the Annual Review of Psychology: “Studies suggest that most children develop the ability to label gender groups and to use gender labels in their speech between 18 and 24 months.”