Dear Diana,
I'm 23 and working with an international BPO. I'm fond of two guys, but I'm confused between the two of them. One of them is a flirt and the other is a serious type. Through common pals I known that the two like me, but I can't make up my mind who to be with. Sometimes I feel I should go around with both of them.
— Melissa


Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Melissa,
You can't be going around with the two because one day, they will know and then it will get difficult for you. You will then end up losing both of them. You have to decide with whom you are more comfortable with. Determine what you want in a partner and what qualities you are looking for in a relationship. Ask yourself who you gel with. Also, it appears that you are unsure who you want to be with. So clear your muddled mind first before figuring out who is a better guy for you.