Dear Diana,
I'm a 29-year-old married woman. My husband is a musician so does not keep fixed hours at work and remains mostly involved in social networking sites. I'm a working woman myself, but his work is more leisure than toil. Most of the time, he indulges in online chatting with friends, posting his videos and songs. I find this behaviour disturbing. Whenever I confront him, he says he's not doing anything wrong. I know for sure that he is also chatting with women.
— Yagnika


Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Yagnika,
You work fixed hours so are unaware what he is up to throughout the day. If he is hooked to social media, there is nothing wrong with it. You are assuming that he is chatting with female friends, so what? As he is a musician he has his fans and maybe he interacts with them. As long as he is not crossing the line there is no cause for alarm. It was your choice to get married to a musician and you were aware about his erratic hours, so there is no point complaining now. Find a way out in which you two can spend time together.