Dear Diana,
I have trust related issues with my parents. It all started five years ago when my parents caught me in a relationship. They were totally against it. My relationship with my boyfriend continues to be healthy, but things aren't cordial at home. My parents have turned to be protective and restrictive about me. I'm 25, but they treat me as if I am a kid. It's really suffocating at times, especially since I'm their only child. As a result, I end up lying a lot and then feel guilty about it as well. I just want a more open social life, but I just don't know how to approach my parents.
— Soumita

 

Dear Soumita,
You have been hiding things from them that is the reason they are now suspicious of you. If you had been honest with them about your relationship, perhaps they might have behaved differently. You are the only child so they are protective towards you and for parents children always remain kids. You need to sit down and talk things out with them to win their trust again.