Updated On: 22 May, 2013 11:49 PM IST | | Dear Diana
Dear Diana, I am in a relationship with a married woman. She's a decade older to me. She's married and has one child. We both are deeply in love.
The trouble is I am going abroad in three months’ time for better job prospects. My parents are already looking for a girl within our community for me to get married. What should I do? Should I just start afresh or should we continue being secret lovers?
— Abidal

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