'I'm flirting with three men on the net'

Dear Diana, I'm 28 and extremely active on social media. I'm flirting with three guys on social networking sites for fun.

These men have totally fallen for me. So much so that they write poems for me to express their love. To be honest, I enjoy the attention but I’m not yet serious about any one of them. Their affection keeps me happy but sometimes I feel like I’m being a terrible person as I’m using them for my own entertainment. But I don’t want to let go off the attention either.
— Kalika

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Kalika,
You seem to be balancing the three guys extremely well. Guess you are good at multitasking. You are feeling guilty of taking the three for a ride, but chances are one of them might just be taking you for a ride! One of the guys on social media may not be what he seems. If you think you are too smart, remember there are scores of others out there smarter than you. As long as it is harmless fun, it is okay. But if guilt pangs still persist, you will have to pick one of the guys. You may want to keep the other two around, but life doesn’t work that way. You have to drop the other two potential suitors before it spells trouble.

Diana will solve it!
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