I am an 18-year-old good-looking guy. I become the centre of attraction wherever I go.
Am good-looking, so why don't I have a girlfriend!
Dear Diana,
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I am an 18-year-old good-looking guy. I become the centre of attraction wherever I go. Many girls get attracted to me and flirt with me but when I reciprocate it doesn't materialise further and fizzles off. Something goes wrong every time. Some say I am too childish while some break it without an apparent reason. I like laughing and making people laugh but I may overdo it sometimes. I have tried a lot to become serious and reserved but that's just not me. None of my crushes have ever gone to the next level. Had I been an average looking guy, I would have consoled myself but being a guy with good personality and looks and not having a GF really hurts. I need a companion. Maybe I am too childish... I have had a lot of trouble in other areas of my life due to this flaw but I can't get over it. Is this really the problem? Do I need a change in my personality? I am lonely and need help!
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Dear Friend,
Why don'y you want to separate from your husband? What's keeping you tied to your marriage? Lack of independence? A lesser standard of living? You will have to sort out your love life first. Your lover has been pursuing you for a long time and has been oscillating between a yes and a no. He can't keep you hanging like that. You do not try to commit suicide even if you are that messed up. When things are that complicated, untangle the craziness in your life. If people cheat on you, they were never deserving of your love in the first place!