There's a guy who's been really patient with me and persistent to know me and I've become interested in him. Here's the snag, he's a bit mysterious and doesn't talk much about himself
Dear Diana,
There's a guy who's been really patient with me and persistent to know me and I've become interested in him. Here's the snag, he's a bit mysterious and doesn't talk much about himself. I really have to think of things to ask him and even then I get rather neutral responses.u00a0
I feel a little mystery is good, but an overall mysterious person seems kind of untrustworthy to me.u00a0 However, he's a kind and genuine person,u00a0 so I don't want to move on purely based on his mysteriousness, not just yet anyway. Not until I get a better idea about who he is.
We haven't met in person yet, it's been a few months of phone calls, but no dates. I've been hinting I want to go on a date soon and he agrees, just never tries to set up one officially. What are your thoughts? How can I get him to open up more? I don't understand these mixed signals.
Sharon
Dear Sharon,
I believe you have answered your question. "We haven't met in person yet." He may be waiting for you to "set up one officially". I think you should set something up and if the timing is right for him it will go very well. If the time is not right for him don't take it personally have a 'plan b' time ready to go. It's alo possible that he isn't sharing anything that's because he doesn't want to be known.
It's better to have a guy who brags about his job or talent than have someone who has nothing to say. I don't want to assume, but he might have some kind of a condition so that leaves him only capable of talking on the phone right now. Meet this guy and find out if he's as guarded in person also, or simply because you are just an internet stranger for now.
What does it say when wife's friend flirts with me?
Dear Diana,
What does a married man really think of a woman that flirts with him? What does he think of her character as a person? Does he really think he can trust someone like that? Especially if he sees that she is friendly with his wife?
DL
Dear DL,
I would assume, that if a woman is flirting with him, and she knows he's married, AND IS friendly with his wife; that he would have about zero respect for her. He may have fun with her flirting, but I can't imagine he would trust her or think very highly of her. I can't imagine many people would.
Size matters... to me!
Dear Diana,
I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I feel inadequate about my size after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of questions that are hurting me. After marriage if my wife feels I am inadequate, then I won't be able to live happily for the rest of my life. So please give me suggestions and advice. I am planning to marry at the age of 27. Is there any chance of improving my penis size? Please give me a solution.
Name withheld on request
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Dear Friend,
Those guys in porn are chosen becaus eof their size. It isn't the average size of most males. They are generally larger men, and the larger the guy the larger their tool. Now as for a wife worrying about your size, don't worry. If she loves you enough to get married, then the size of your package won't matter. Women can't even feel pleasure beyond three inches of her.
A woman will marry you for who you are and for your compatibility, not the size of your dick. And, a lot of women don't care for porn - they find it intimidating and inaccurate. They will be just as happy with a real man as you will with a real women without all the silicone, fake lashes, full Brazilian and high heels.