I'm finding out that my girlfriend is far bolder than I could have ever imagined.

NOW SHOWING: I think my girlfriend's an exhibitionist!

NOW SHOWING: I Think My Girlfriend's An Exhibitionist!

Dear Diana,
I'm finding out that my girlfriend is far bolder than I could have ever imagined. She's 23 and I'm 25 and we have been together for a year and a half now. We've had sex off and on for around eight months now and she always takes charge. We do it everywhere u2014 in her room, in my room, in my car and also on our terraces. Now, she wants to do it in a theatre. I'm panicking because there will be other people there and we might get caught. But she's adamant. What should I do?u00a0

Name withheld

Dear Friend,
It's not like people don't do it anyway. And a lot of people get away with it during morning shows when the screens are hardly occupied. But that doesn't mean you should join the boinking bandwagon. I think that it's sort of illegal (go ask a lawyer!) and you could be behind bars if caught having sex in public. It's a conservative society you live in and there's really no saying what could happen should you be found out. I understand the thrill involved in the whole affair, the law might not! You have been warned!

I can't hook up for long...

Dear Diana,
I am an 18-year-old boy. My problem is that I can't hook up with girls easily or for a long time. I personally suffer problems with my girlfriend. We fight on small matters.

Aarush

Dear Aarush,
Problems? Everybody has problems! What are the nature of your problems? Just that you fight over trivial matters with your girlfriend? From the sound of it, you're portraying yourself as being a difficult person to be around. If you're that aware of your shortcomings, just avoid them! Stop giving excuses. Be the change!

Yeh mera 'akelapan'!

Dear Diana,
I am still lonely. I met a sweet-looking gal while chatting. We dated often but after a couple of months, tired of each other. And even while having sex with another gal, I remember my ex. I've spoken to her many times... but as a friend. But because of a misunderstanding, we've grown apart. I miss her and want to continue helping her every way I can. She has stopped talking to me now. So why do I think of her when I'm with other gals? We broke up almost two years ago. The "loneliness" is killing me!
u00a0
Name withheld on request

Dear Friend,
You're never going to be happy if you're going to be seeking your ex in every woman you meet. No-one is ever going to measure up to the standards you're setting because she's already the benchmark. Find someone who excels that "benchmark" and you will know that you've outgrown her and can move on. Absence does make the heart grow fonder, so it is but natural that you are going to feel "lonely" even when you're with another girl. It's been two years. Stop behaving like a kid. Grow up.