I am a 15 year old boy studying in Std X. There is this girl in my class. I met her this year and we've become very good friends
Dear Diana,
I am a 15 year old boy studying in Std X. There is this girl in my class. I met her this year and we've become very good friends. I liked her a lot and so one day, I proposed to her. She got very angry and stopped talking to me. She said that she had faith in me and I shouldn't have done this to her.
I told her I truly love her and would never ditch her. She is the first girl I've ever liked and proposed to. She had recently broken up with her guy. I felt I was wrong and asked her to forgive me and be just friends. She agreed. But since then, she's been very possessive of me. 
She gets angry for the most minor reasons and stops talking to me. Then I have to pacify her every time. There is this other guy in our class who is seriously involved with a schoolmate. Yet he flirts with my friend and she never rebukes him. He even talks about sex with her and she responds. I have stopped pacifying her and now we've stopped talking. Am I the one in the wrong here? I am really frustrated.
Name withheld on request
Dear Friend,
To answer your question, you aren't wrong about asking her to stop flirting with her schoolmate. Also, I think while this girl wants to be just friends with you, she likes the idea of you being in love with her.
So she is possessive about you, but doesn't like it when you do the same. This kind of double standards are unacceptable. You did the right thing by stopping talking to her.
Stay away from her and you'll find someone you like, soon enough. And a lesson for the future: you can't just tell a friend about your feelings for her, until you sense she likes you back and wants to be something more than a friend. A lot of friendships have been spoilt this way.
Also if she'd just broken up with her guy, then even your timing was wrong. She was hating all guys at that point, and just needed a friend, but you proposed to her. When her world was tumbling around her, the last thing she needed to hear was you had feelings for her. Just be more certain of the timing and the girl's reaction before you approach her.
The girl I love broke up with me...
Dear Diana,
For the past one year, I have been with this girl I really love. But one day she suddenly told me she wants to break up. I was shocked. I know she will come back to me again, but I don't know if my decision to wait for her is the right one. I love her and can't think of anyone else. Help.
Anthony
Dear Anthony,
Never wait for someone who leaves. It is a waste of time. She left suddenly, for no rhyme or reason. That was cruel. People who love someone, don't treat them in this manner. Stop thinking about her. Make it your aim in life to get over her. How are you to know, that if you accept her back, she won't do the same thing to you again?
I am stuck between my wife and my mistress...
Dear Diana,
I am a 35 year old good looking, married guy working as a manager in a posh restaurant. I am in a physical relationship with my boss's wife. She likes me and pays me Rs 20k (which is almost double my monthly salary) for continuing this relationship. But this also means I am always at her beck and call.
Whenever she calls, I have to go, even if it is late in the night. My wife has begun to doubt me and we've started fighting. I don't like this but I can't break it off as I am getting good money which I am using for my family. Can you help?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
You have to decide what's more importantu00a0-- the money, or your happiness. There you have your answer. In my opinion,u00a0 you should break up the affair with your boss's wife, because if your employer finds out, you will be without a job. How willl you support your family then? There are other better ways to make extra money, than pimping yourself.
Also, the fights at home will get worse and could even break up your marriage. Is that extra money worth that? If you think that your boss's wife will make life hell for you, thenu00a0 start looking for a new job. Get out of this situation.
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