Dear Diana,

I told you about my relationship ('Shaadi? More time please!'; March 11). When I asked him if he would really marry me, he said yes. After that, he said that he doesn't believe in saying but in doing. And so, he will marry me this year. But following this, his behaviour has changed.

One day, he told me that he was in the office but I confirmed from his office but they told me he was on leave. I confronted him over this and he said that he was in office and that the people at his office were lying. I asked him if he has any other girlfriend, he said no and that he only loves me. All this depresses me and I love him a lot. Now I feel that he never cares for me and my emotions.

As of now, we work in different companies and he has said he WILL marry me. Should I tell his family this? Please help me, sometimes I feel there is nothing in my life without him. He doesn't want to talk about this and says he will marry me and to leave it at that!

Alisha