Dear Diana,

A month back, through a social networking site, I started video chatting with a girl who stays in Bangalore and afterwards on the phone too. At that time, I thought she was a nice girl and it could go further than a friendship. With this thing in mind, I proposed to her a couple of weeks back; she accepted. Since then, she has been behaving very strangely.

She is bothering me a lot by making frequent phone calls, texts and missed calls. I am always busy with work assignments and cannot take her calls. I think she is getting very possessive and that is freaking me out. Please bail me out of this mess. I want to tell her this relationship is no longer gonna happen. How do I do it without hurting her feelings? I am unable to concentrate onu00a0 work because of this guilt.

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