I found out he was cheating and he broke up with me!

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Dear Diana,
We've been together eight months. But he is very possessive and doesn't like me talking to other guys. Last month, he moved to another city though I wasn't comfortable with the idea but adjusted as he promised that it wouldn't affect our relationship. While he was gone, I came to know that he was seeing another gal the same time as me. He had introduced her as his friend. I had a word with her and she confirmed it. He denied it all and said he needed some time to clear things up. He then proceeded to break up with me and said that it was not possible for him to continue the relationship as we're miles apart anyway. I tried to sort out things but he won't listenu00a0 and won't answer my calls. I am totally shattered. I don't want to lose him!

XYZ

Dear Friend,
Losing him could be the best thing that happened to you. He was "possessive" of you in that you couldn't talk to other guys? But it's okay for him to have another girlfriend while he was with you. Where's the fairness in that. he's selfish and nothing more. He may deny it all he wants, but from what you found out, he sounds guilty as sin. Dumping you is only a way to save face for him, Why do you even want to be with such a loser? Think of him as a bad dream. Grow wiser from this experience.

Will I ever find love?

Dear Diana,
When will I find love? Who will love me? I have been searching for boys but no-one comes to me. By the way, I study in Standard 8. Any solutions?