Dear Diana,
I am 20 and have been in a relationship with a 19-year-old girl for over a year now. For a couple of months now, we've been having some problems. These would end after I pleaded with her to forget and forgive even if it was not my fault. Everyone knows that I truly love her, but now I don't want to plead again, as I don't want her to know that I am this desperate for her. But even if I want to contact her, I will not be able to because she has stopped using her cell phone, I can't contact her at home, or heru00a0 friends as the college is closed. Please help me get her back!!!! I am not able to focus on anything.

Name withheld

Dear Friend,
Give her some time to cool off. She's obviously angry at you over something. And if you're unsure what that is, it's best to stay away for some time. She's happy playing the dominant partner in this relationship. If you are okay with that, pursue her with all your heart and put up with all her idiosyncrasies. Go up to her and grovel and beg her to come back to you and say you're sorry. Sorry if I'm being sarcastic but you deserve it. This relationship seems a little too slanted in her favour. If you are guilty of something, fine. But nothing you've written here, suggests that you have.

Is hard livin' destroying my manliness?

Dear Diana,
I'm 36 and suffer from premature ejaculation. I have two pegs of hard liquor and smoke daily. I want to quit but don't know how.