The most common way of falling into the rut is when someone tries to fall pregnant, suddenly random acts of passion lovemaking turns into a chore. The best way to avoid this situation is to not put much pressure, as studies show that being relaxed and stress-free is a major factor in a woman’s ability to conceive.

Secondly, the arrival of a new baby can also put a dampener on sex. To avoid this the site advises the couple to take some baby time out “Are there any friends, family members or a childminder who can care for the baby and give you a break,” suggests Adelaide Aduboffour, author of Sex & Romance During Pregnancy and After Birth.