love@mail has derailed our steady relationship...

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Dear Diana,

Amit Kumar

Dear Amit,

Two red flags go up here: if you really love her dearly, how does one indiscretion matter? Of course, here the assumption would be that she has cheated on you.

Secondly, assuming that she's telling the truth and the email sender isn't, why is defending the sender and still insists he's a 'friend'. Friends don't try to destroy other friends' lives.

About wanting to believe in someone or something, the ground rule is: go with your head and not your heart.
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Was there a reply from your fiancee or any past correspondence that corroborates your version of the 'truth'? If not, there's no reason to doubt the veracity of her statements.

Tere pyaar mein bana Devdas!

Dear Diana,

I love her but she doesn't. A few days back, she sent me a message that she'd say yes if her mom agreed and if she's sure that her daughter would be very happy and secure financially and socially.

We met and caught a movie and it was then that she told me she had no feelings for me. I said I only needed her support and love. I even spoke to her parents about out marriage.

Thereafter, she wouldn't take my calls and I even startedu00a0 smoking and drinking but still couldn't forget her. Yesterday night, I consumedu00a0 poison, but survived. What should I do?

Mausim

Dear Mausim,

Only a loser will take recourse to intoxication to emerge from a broken heart. Suicide isn't the answer to getting back at someone who's simply led you along.

You have been doing everything she demanded and to no avail. Besides, it doesn't seem like she's worth the heartache.

Look out for someone who loves you equally, rather than spending your moments slowly wasting after someone who couldn't care a hoot if you lived or died.

Dil ki baat kaise kahoon?

Dear Diana,

I am 22-year-old boy. There was this girl in my college who I think I loved the most after my family. I was a teenager then and knew nothing about love but in spite of not seeing her for more than four years now I still miss her.

She was the only girl I liked dearly. She was very ambitious and an only child. She was rich and may be a little arrogant but I liked her.

Till date, I have not had the courage to approach her. I was always a sincere person and was always very shy to talk to girls. We do not have any common friends.

I want to tell her my feelings andu00a0 am not bothered about her answer but I do not know how to go about it.

Dev

Dear Dev
,
Why wait so long to tell someone you love so dearly that you do? She's obviously a stark opposite of what you are, and possibly that's why you're so attracted to her.

It's easy to hide away and blame your being shy for everything. She's everything you're not and from the sound of it, has always gone after what she wanted.

I think so should you. Don't sit around waiting for miracles to happen. Make them happen!

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