My stingy boyfriend doesn't treat me ever!

Illustration/ Sameer Pawar

Dear Diana,
I have been with my 20 year old boyfriend for two years. I still love him more than ever. I just feel like throughout our relationship I have never really been treated by him. Even on my birthday, I didn't really get many presents and he complained when we went out for a meal and it cost Rs 400 for the both of us. I just dont know how to tell him that I dont get treats like other girls without sounding selfish. Iknow my friends are always getting taken out, bought flowers and I just feel like he is a little bit lazy in this area. I also feel like I take him out and get him more gifts and treats than he gives me... it just doesn't seem right and surely it is the girl who should get all the treats.

Name withheld