Updated On: 21 January, 2011 07:59 AM IST | | Diana
I am 22. I was in love with a Hindu guy. My parents knew about it. His parents were not ready to accept me because I am not a Hindu and so we broke up, over a year ago
Dear Diana,
I am 22. I was in love with a Hindu guy. My parents knew about it. His parents were not ready to accept me because I am not a Hindu andu00a0 so we broke up, over a year ago. Three months later, I met a 33-year-old Gujarati guy. He proposed to me but I neither said yes nor no. I used to meet him everyday and things were going normal.
Then I got a job and so we started meeting once or twice a week. Then last August I finally asked him why he was with me. "Are you serious or is it just timepass or sexual satisfaction?" He did not reply, though I kept asking him for the next three month.
Then I got pregnant. He didn't care about the pregnancy, or the abortion I did. Frustrated, I called him drunk, yelled at him and asked him the same question. He asked he's taking itu00a0 one day at a time.u00a0 He said due to my attitude he doesn't want any relationship with me.
I apologised several times and finally he agreed to continue, but he has not met me after that day. We talk on the phone everyday. Yet, I get the vibe that he no longer cares for me and talks just for the heck of it. I don't know whether he still feels for me or is with me for the heck of it. Should I split ways with him or sit calm and watch what he does? Will this relationship work?
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