Updated On: 11 February, 2010 08:29 AM IST | | Diana
I'm 26 and she is 24. I've been in love with her for three years now
Dear Diana,
I'm 26 and she is 24. I've been in love with her for three years now. We love each other very much. I know she is loyal tou00a0 me. We have had sex often. I'm very emotional attached to her.
But the problem is that gives me the time of day when she has nothing exciting in her life but when she has, she totally forgets me. And these things hurt me. I love her so much. I don't know how to handle these situations.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
In three years, you haven't been able to keep her consistently coming back to you? It's one thing being in love and quite another showing it. Sex is a binding factor, though not always. However, if she relegates you to second best the first chance she gets, it's never a good sign.
Like they said in one movie: don't play a supporting role in your own love story. Tell her that all this has to stop if she wants to be with you. Of course, you'll come off looking possessive. And that, my friend, is a trait that could tilt the balance either way.
I cannot break up with him
Dear Diana,
I am in love with my best friend for a year now though we are totally opposite in nature. We don't share a proper understanding (especially me) and we fight a lot these days. I cannot break up with him. Please suggest another solution.