Dear Diana,

I've been dating this one girl for about two years now. She's a complete opposite (to me). We broke up six months back because she lied about being in touch with all her exes. She even slept at her ex's place when he came down. I gave her one last chance... weu00a0 patched up.

She never told those close to her that we were together again. My family thinks we are but she still takes me for granted. She never listens, smokes drinks, hangs out late with friends and is still in touch with her exes. When with family and I call, she behaves like she speaking to a total stranger. All she says is that she never cheated on me. I can't trust her anymore.
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Dear Friend,

Dishonesty in any relationship is bad and is best avoided. Especially when it involves one's past. She has been dishonest on more than one occasion and you have given her several chances to regain your trust. If she smokes or drinks, it's a personal choice.

You can advise your significant other, but cannot impose your own values on them. If she treats you like a complete stranger around friends and family, she obviously has commitment issues and is in this relationship on the sly. Technically, she may not have cheated on you by simply being around her exes but she is being dishonest about it by denying it when you know it to be true. Part ways if it isn't working out for you rather than wonder when things will improve. They won't.



I ejaculate within a minute

Dear Diana,

I'm a 20-year-old guy. My problem is, whenever I masturbate or have sex with my GF, I ejaculate within a minute. Can this be treated? Will it be a problem?