Dear Diana,
I've known this girl for the last three years. I loved her very much but she was not ready to commit. A year later, I came to know that she was already in a relationship. She kept this secret from me. I stepped back but was unable to ignore her completely. She was keen on keeping in touch with me, so I occasionally respond to her texts. She then ignored me, then kept in touch. It's happened three times now. How do I deal with it?

Name withheld

Dear Friend,
Ever get that feeling you're just playing a supporting role in someone else's love story? This is just like that. If she managed to keep the two-timing a secret for as long as a year, you can expect more skeletons to slip out the closet. No harm in keeping in touch. Just remember, don't expect her to choose you. Why? It's plainly obvious she won't commit. She already has. To someone else. You're just an option. That's it!

How to get her in the mood?

Dear Diana,
I want to have sex with a girl. How should I get her in the mood?