'Consciously Single': Study reveals more women are picking up the dating trend

With the wedding festivities in full swing Indian parents are gearing up to get their kids hitchedWeddings can be pleasant but they can also cause tension and anxiety because of social and familial expectations to be married especially for unmarried women in IndiaAccording to a recent study by the Bumble App nearly 2 in 5 39 percent Indian daters believe that their families urge them to make traditional matches around the wedding season When asked when they intend to get married 39 percent of respondents say that they feel under pressure During the Indian wedding season nearly a third 33 percent of the unmarried Indians surveyed say they feel compelled to enter a committed longterm relationshipIn addition to the emphasis on togetherness at this time singleshaming makes people feel as though they are being evaluated for being single This usually happens as a result of unwanted inquiries and views about how they date Single shaming which refers to the concept that being single is only a temporary situation that needs to be rapidly addressed is entrenched in pop culture and societal expectations in IndiaThe dating trend Consciously Single is becoming more popular in India during this wedding season according to Bumble as single people particularly women are consciously choosing to remain single and not compromise on their preferences while being more deliberate about who and how they want to date According to a recent study by Bumble 81 percent of women polled in India said they felt more at ease being unmarried and living alone When dating someone 63 percent of respondents say they wont give in to their preferences needs or requirements In fact according to a survey 83 percent of women say they are content to wait until they find the right personThe shaadi season in India often brings experiences of singleshaming with questions and judgement about our dating lives Often the identity of a single woman is synonymous with being unmarried This singleshaming also means that single women are anxious about attending wedding functions or family events in anticipation of people telling them that they are not trying hard enough or trying to set them up in the traditional way Attending a loved ones wedding instead of celebrating then often becomes a source of anxiety when it shouldnt be shares Samarpita Samaddar India Communications Director BumbleConsciously Single trend shows more women are being intentional in how and who they want to date On Bumble women are in control choosing who and how they want to date and what is important to them We want to encourage women to date on their own timelines making the best first moves as and when they want she addsTips on how to navigate the wedding seasonWhen your parents ask When will you get married Im focusing on myself right now and many things that are important to me could be a smooth and respectful answer to this wellknown question After all we spend most of our time with ourselves Therefore focusing on yourself treating yourself and paying close attention to your own needs and desires is a very important skill to masterWhen that aunty suggests My nephew would be a great match for youWho hasnt been there Other people regularly think you would be a wonderful match for someone just because they are also single Personality interests life goals or other needs dont seem to matter in front of societal expectations to get married within a set timeline Stay cool and you can say I know you mean well but I prefer taking control of my dating life when I feel like it I will date on my own terms and thats better I thinkIf mom asks Dont you want children Youll be all alone after usRespond in a kind but determined way Thank you for your concern Im moving at my own pace would be a competent answer in this situation Your moms concern is understandable however you should not let this stress you out and focus on your prioritiesWhen that relative or your neighbour wants to know Where is your better halfThe term better half implies that one is not complete and less significant without this particular other person Instead we should see ourselves as whole and worthy without a partner Our happiness grows through selfawareness and maturity You could answer something like Which half Im here quite completely and that feels really greatRead More Yearender Experts weigh in on lsquoSituationshiprsquo the top dating trend of 2022This story has been sourced from a third party syndicated feed agencies Midday accepts no responsibility or liability for its dependability trustworthiness reliability and data of the text Midday managementmiddaycom reserves the sole right to alter delete or remove without notice the content in its absolute discretion for any reason whatsoever