Dear Diana,
I was in a relationship for seven months. We broke up because I was tired of him making me do things like not letting me go out or sometimes even speak to other boys. He even stopped me from going out with friends. I've realised that it is difficult to socialise with guys after this but I do want a relationship. In any case, what guy wants a girl with no personality? What should I do to gain more confidence?

Name withheld

Dear Friend,
You have it. It's just that you're probably having a hard time advertising it effectively. There is a fine three-way balance between showing your genuine self, personally working to constantly better yourself, and showing it in a way and at a rate that will intrigue guys without scaring them away. The only long-term solution is practice. Put yourself out there, and be willing to take risks.

Do guys respect girls who've never done it?

Dear Diana,
Is it true that guys actually respect girls who have never had sex or if they haven't done much with a guy?