Updated On: 03 December, 2010 07:17 AM IST | | Diana
I am 27 years old and my fianc ufffd is 25. We've been together for two years now, but I get very uncomfortable when we go out with his guy friends
Dear Diana,
I am 27 years old and my fianc ufffd is 25. We've been together for two years now, but I get very uncomfortable when we go out with his guy friends. All his friends are single, and they happily crack jokes about women and their experiences with them, without once thinking how it will make me feel.

My guy joins them too. The guys often describe his experiences with them in strip bars before he met me. I could forgive all this, if not for the fact that my beau still gives preference to them over me. Now they have decided to go on a decadent 'boys only' trip to Bangkok.
When I had suggested a getaway to Shimla, he had said we should watch our finances, and now he agreed for the trip without even thinking twice about money. I am sure once he goes there, his friends will have flings and encourage him to go for it too. Sometimes, I think I am being too stupid, at other times, I am swallowed by my own insecurities. What to do?
Chhavi