Navigating online dating comes with trials, errors and never-have-I-evers, not to forget new slang. Who can keep up? That’s why the good folks at Agents of Ishq have curated a dictionary of digital dating.

You’ll spot familiar abbreviations like PDA (Public Display of Affection) and new entrants like DTR (Define The Relationship. Meaning: asking one’s partner for a label — Are we exclusive? Or do you have a side-piece?). The Agents list down terms like Cuffing Season (hunting for a temporary partner for the holidays), Benching (dating someone you aren’t very attracted to while dating another to keep options open), and Situationship (a convenient relationship based on location and relationship status).