The most anticipated meeting between powerful leaders was also a crucial lesson in non-verbal skills. Here's why you should've followed the Israel-Palestine peace talks held in Washington last week, even if you care two hoots about world peace
The most anticipated meeting between powerful leaders was also a crucial lesson in non-verbal skills. Here's why you should've followed the Israel-Palestine peace talks held in Washington last week, even if you care two hoots about world peace
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Washington DC where direct peace talks were held on September 1 and 2 between Israel and the Palestinians. The meeting will serve to "re-launch direct negotiations to resolve all final-status issues, which we believe we can complete in one year," US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton said.
The players:
US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu of Israel, President Mahmoud Abbas of the Palestinian Authority.
Guest appearance: US President Barack Obama
Obama leads Abbas to the waiting limousine. The reassuring hand on the back establishes warmth and intimacy, crucial to the theme of the talks. But a friendly arm can be considered disrespectful in certain cultures, especially if coming from a younger man. Be aware of this detail, and avoid it totally if you are with the opposite sex.
Rival countries or rival companies the heads of both states are sitting in unfavourable positions. Netanyahu looks at Abbas through the corner of his eye, while his hands are clasped together, making him come across as suspicious, defensive and guarded. Abbas on the other hand, slumps in his chair, leaving him looking defeated and disinterested.
Always include all concerned people in a conversation. As Clinton leans toward Abbas for a chat, Netanyahu looks on, obviously excluded from the conversation. This isn't the best way to mediate. Mediation is done best if you can present yourself as an impartial third party.
Israel's Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu reaches across US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton to shake hands with President of the Palestinian Authority Mahmoud Abbas. A lot can be said in a handshake. Both men are maintaining eye contact, smiling, and their grip looks firm - all steps to create a congenial atmosphere. But male bonding must take deference when a lady is around. Should they have stood up to shake hands? Should Clinton have been less defensive to avoid the awkward smile on her face? Experts advise going around a table or desk over an across-a-person handshake