I want my ex back so bad! We have always been perfect for each other and he just makes me so happy but my mom and friends say he treats me really bad and stuff but all guys mess up sometimes, like he flirts with passing gals (like all guys do)
Dear Diana,
I want my ex back so bad! We have always been perfect for each other and he just makes me so happy but my mom and friends say he treats me really bad and stuff but all guys mess up sometimes, like he flirts with passing gals (like all guys do).
I broke up with him because I heard rumours that he was going to dump me. He said he wasn't going to but I didn't believe him anyway and one day after we broke up we hung out and he told me we were going to get back together so I let him touch and fondle me but the day after, he would not give me the time of day. I'm so confused. I want him back. Tell me how.
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Name withheld
Dear Friend,
If he makes you perfectly happy, why go with what your friends and mother say? You're the best judge of who he is, not them. Agreed, all guys mess up. But not all guys flirt with their girlfriends watching. Also, if you hear rumoursu00a0 and take decisions without verifying their authenticity, it's best that he isn't with you anymore. Also, you don't get physical with your ex after a break-up. It simply means you aren't thinking straight.
At 19 and still a virgin...
Dear Diana,
I am 19 and am still a virgin. I am finally ready to have sex but find it very daunting. Also, being that intimate with some- one is rather scary. I have someone I would like to be my first but keep avoiding it because of this. He knows this and is is not with me only for the sex.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
If he knows this is how you feel and is still there, I think he is willing to wait until you feel comfortable about it. If he does leave, then maybe it's for the best that you didn't lose it to him. It is scary but sometimes when you're with a person it just sort of happens.
Woh mujhe bhool gaya toh?
Dear Diana,
I have been dating my boyfriend for seven months.We have had a lot of problems in our relationship, however, one of the things I'm completely sure about is that I love him and that he means everything to me. But he never has time for me, he's always busy. Five days ago, I texted him and told him that we should spend time together.
He texted back saying he has a lot of problems and to leave him alone for a while. So I stopped. Today he called me and I didn't pick up. He called home and askedif I didn't want to talk to him anymore. I love him and want to forget about him but can't. What if he doesn't call me tomorrow? What if he forgets about me?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
I do understand that fear of everything falling apart, but people don't stop caring about someone because of a phone call. Especially when he'd done the same to you a day before! Also, when we care about someone we don't forget about them in a few days.
If he was going to leave you over something that small, then he was always going to leave you. But it doesn't sound like you're at that point. He clearly wants to talk, and hopefully explain himself. Don't panic. However, it sounds odd to me that he would be so busy. I know you love him, but it doesn't sound like he's placing much importance on your feelings right now. I'm not saying you have to leave him, but maybe be a bit assertive about getting what you need from him.