Pleasure isn’t straight

Pleasure isn't straight

Adam to Adam, Eve to Eve. What would they do when they meet, in bedroom? While answers to obvious questions remain even more obvious, here's a same sex love guide for those who believe that straight is just common, not necessarily funu00a0

Consensual adult gay sex is no more a crime and the queer community is riding high on the revolutionary decision. What needs to be kept in mind is that HIV Aids is most prevalent in the queer bunch, so there has to be utmost care taken while indulging in gay sex. Read on to know how you can play safe.

Work on sexual behaviour
The 'act' binds two souls, irrespective of all the gender combinations and permutations. So that the 'moment of heat' doesn't lead to 'an ordeal of regret', it's very important to practice safe sex, which keeps a check on chances of contracting illness. Always wear a rubber, which is cheap, user-friendly, easily available and actually works. While many feel that condoms reduce the pleasure, prefer not to entertain such recommendations because the 'real pleasure' can be derived if you use a proper lubricant.

Strangers aren't perfect
If you don't know your partner, stay away from him or her. It's better you scrutinise one's sexual history before you go further. Make sure that your man isn't sleeping with every other man. There isn't one genuine reason to not know your partner. It's absolutely fine if you enquire about his past life. After all you're playing a bet that has lot of emotional and health related risk and if the partner is sensible enough, he/she wouldn't mind your queries.

Back to books
While homosexuality and its pros and cons have been talked at length, not many people are aware of the technicalities of homosexual act. It's better that you read up on safe sex so that you know the rules of the game.

Don't drink and 'drive'
Violent acts under the influence of drugs and alcohol are prevalent in the queer community like elsewhere. Plus, once you're drunk you might forget to take precautionary measures. So why take a chance, just make sure you and your partner isn't drunk and both of you are in safe hands. Remember, champions don't drink and drive.

Choose positions carefully
Sex positions or postures don't differ much, just know the limitations. First decide, who's going to command.u00a0

Then, choose positions that work equally for heterosexual activity as well as a homosexual act. Anal sex position is the most definitive form of gay love. However, whether it works for you or not is a different question.
That apart, it hurts too. If you're going in for mutual masturbation, make sure you're handling with care. It's not a race so make sure you take everything slowly and the motion doesn't cause bleeding, which could be life threatening if you or your partner have already tested 'positive'.