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So what if I'm Manglik... what's the bloody problem?
Dear Diana,
I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a girl for a year now. We love each other a lot and wanted to get married. We are from the same caste, too, but her father is adamant about not agreeing to the match. I am Manglik and she is not. He says he will keep his daughter single all her life but won't allow her to marry me. I proposed a court marriage, she rejected the idea and said she can't go against her parents. She says she'll wait for me until her parents agree. Trouble is, they fix a matrimonial prospect meeting every Sunday. I am in a fix. I can't concentrate on anything. Iu00a0 can't forget her or think about anything but her. I can't imagine my life
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without her.
Praveer Sarkar
Dear Praveer,
What was the nature of this secret you shared with her colleague? Andwhy was it imperative that you share this secret with the colleague to know why your girlfriend was upset? It all seems quite awkward a way to approach things. Obviously, it was something the revelation of which has irritated her to no end. Nothing you say will pacify her for now. Wait it out till her anger cools down and then try to regain her trust by being there for her no matter what.