“Dating ‘for the plot’ is about keeping things easy and fun. Instead of stressing about whether you`re a perfect match or planning the future from the get-go, it`s like going with the flow of a story and focusing on the joy of connection rather than overthinking where things might lead. You enjoy each other`s company, live in the moment, and let the relationship develop naturally,” explains Dr Chandni Tugnait, life coach and relationship expert partner with Tinder India. 

Those who date `for the plot` embrace the adventure and say yes to opportunities they might otherwise overlook, without trying to define the relationship too soon. “This mindset takes away the pressure, letting young adults be themselves and appreciate the unique experiences and connections each relationship brings. Shifting away from outcome-focused dating reflects a move towards viewing the dating journey as a path to self-discovery, not just a checklist for commitment,” adds Tugnait.