How is she leading you on by being honest about this situation? If you don’t want to attend, you’re free to decline.

 You should tell him why this is bothering you, because you are inadvertently cutting off lines of communication by assuming you will create an issue.

If you don’t want to lose her forever, you are only postponing a difficult conversation. Sweeping things under a rug doesn’t resolve them

A relationship built on inauthenticity will always have an end date, so try and prevent that from happening if you genuinely care about this person

Strong relationships are built on honesty, faith, trust, and communication. Without these, you will always have doubts and no way of dispelling them

Ask questions about how he feels, tell him what’s on your mind, and work on this together for a while before arriving at any decision.

Sometimes, fixing what is wrong starts with being able to identify what expectations you both have, and what isn’t being met.

If you know what you are signing up for, you should be prepared for the consequences too. Why assume you will always struggle with this separation?

Instead of being afraid, try accepting this as part of her personality and allow her to talk about what bothers her.

If she refuses, you will have your answer. Choosing to go out with you is her prerogative and you have to accept that

Dr love

I need him to stop love-bombing me

He still meets his ex-girlfriend

I hooked up with her best friend!

Want to change her view of me...

Want to cut ties with my family...

I want to break up with him now!

Can’t manage her mood swings!

His alcohol issues are worrying...

He wants to wait to have a child?

Did I just blow my chances with her?

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