If she refuses, you will have your answer. Choosing to go out with you is her prerogative and you have to accept that

If he isn’t giving you what you need despite being told, you should ask yourself why you are in this relationship and what you hope to get from it.

 You don’t have to commit to anything you don’t want to, because your feelings are justified and his behaviour is not.

If she is clear about what she wants and her expectations from this relationship don’t match with your own, it seems as if you already have your answer. To stay on in the hope that she changes her mind is your call alone.

How do I change this about myself? If I can’t chat, I worry that I will always be alone

My worry is if I get engaged and change my mind, it will be devastating for her

Why not prioritise yourself, your life and future before looking at the possibility of happiness from an outside source?

Your pain is real and may take time to manage, but it may ultimately give way to something more meaningful.

The only thing you can do is reach out to him, be honest about what happened, and accept what he has to say. It is his prerogative to avoid giving you a second chance.

Why can’t you tell her the truth and accept that you are vulnerable about something you have no control over?

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