Strong relationships are built on honesty, faith, trust, and communication. Without these, you will always have doubts and no way of dispelling them

Ask questions about how he feels, tell him what’s on your mind, and work on this together for a while before arriving at any decision.

Sometimes, fixing what is wrong starts with being able to identify what expectations you both have, and what isn’t being met.

If you know what you are signing up for, you should be prepared for the consequences too. Why assume you will always struggle with this separation?

Instead of being afraid, try accepting this as part of her personality and allow her to talk about what bothers her.

If she refuses, you will have your answer. Choosing to go out with you is her prerogative and you have to accept that

If he isn’t giving you what you need despite being told, you should ask yourself why you are in this relationship and what you hope to get from it.

 You don’t have to commit to anything you don’t want to, because your feelings are justified and his behaviour is not.

If she is clear about what she wants and her expectations from this relationship don’t match with your own, it seems as if you already have your answer. To stay on in the hope that she changes her mind is your call alone.

How do I change this about myself? If I can’t chat, I worry that I will always be alone

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