This is heartbreaking because I love her and thought we would be friends for the rest of our lives. How do I save her?

He scares me and I don’t know how to manage

He needs to understand the message without ambiguity, so try being as clear as possible

If you have strong reasons for wanting to elope, they are presumably based upon the fact that your parents aren’t being supportive enough

Give yourself some time to understand what you want before you think about staying or ending this

Mental health is critical and can have an impact on any relationship, so it’s great that you both have access to the help you need

Should we be more upfront about wanting to be in relationships when we ask someone out?

Relationships end when two people aren’t on the same page, and that is the first thing to accept before assigning blame.

Looking for love outside is a temporary solution that can only cause more pain

Should I speak to a counsellor about this? I don’t want to stay like this forever

Love Tips

Dr love with Mid-day: My friend’s husband is a bad person!